There was a moment during the campaign when Bill Clinton called John Kerry and advised him to figure out a way to support the then only proposed state bans on gay marriage.
It was after all, the politically expedient thing to do.
Is that where you want to go from here?
Do we change the message to match the the trends. Or do we do a better job of messaging our core beliefs? To paraphrase a rather simple man: I know where I stand.
Does my party?